{"id":5480,"date":"2013-02-28T05:00:41","date_gmt":"2013-02-28T13:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yardi.com\/blog\/?p=5480"},"modified":"2026-02-22T15:29:45","modified_gmt":"2026-02-22T23:29:45","slug":"finding-inspiration","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yardi.com\/blog\/finding-inspiration\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding Inspiration"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yardi.com\/blog\/insight\/finding-inspiration\/5480.html\/attachment\/topwomeninrealestate\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-5507\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-5507\" title=\"TopWomeninRealEstate\" src=\"https:\/\/www.yardi.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2013\/02\/TopWomeninRealEstate-260x300.jpg\" alt=\"Top Women in Real Estate\" width=\"260\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>It\u2019s inspiring to hear the details of a success story, and never more so than when the person had to fight their way to the top. Talk to a female executive in commercial real estate, and chances are you\u2019ll walk away with more than a few such inspirations. Talk to 25 of them, and you\u2019ll be overwhelmed with good ideas, advice and insights. And regardless of whether you\u2019re male or female, you\u2019ll want to put them to use.<\/p>\n<p>Needless to say, finishing up work on Commercial Property Executive\u2019s March 2013 feature, <strong>Top Women in Real Estate<\/strong>, I had more new ideas than I knew what to do with. OK, true confessions, we didn\u2019t talk to all 25\u2014a few were so busy we never got them on the phone. But most made themselves available, and their stories provided a lesson in perseverance, ingenuity and dedication.<\/p>\n<p>While these traits might be expected of such a group, some less likely characteristics also emerged during the course of our interviews. Among them was what seemed an unusually prevalent (though not omnipresent) tendency toward self awareness, an ability to recognize and admit to strengths and weaknesses that doesn\u2019t always survive the climb to the top rungs of the career ladder. Beyond the admission, it was evident in an expressed willingness to listen and communicate, as well as to identify and emphasize the best characteristics of their team members.<\/p>\n<p>With self awareness can come humility and even insecurity, and while that latter trait might not seem a natural fit for aggressive dealmakers, two of the most successful brokers in New York City, <strong>Mary Ann Tighe<\/strong> of CBRE Group Inc. and<strong> Tara Stacom<\/strong> of Cushman &amp; Wakefield Inc., admitted to it\u2014and illustrated how they put it to good use. Another top-ranked female executive, <strong>Christie Kelly<\/strong>, CFO of Duke Realty Corp., stressed the importance of learning from mistakes. \u201cIf you aren\u2019t failing at times, you\u2019re really not challenging yourself or your business team to be the best,\u201d she declared, in a loose reflection of 18<sup>th<\/sup> century poet Alexander Pope\u2019s lesson.<\/p>\n<p>A common trait among the group was a constant desire to keep learning from experiences and new opportunities. They look outward as well as inward for new ideas, and a couple even seek feedback from their children, putting faith in the honesty and perception of the young.<\/p>\n<p>Remembering their own experiences, most of them actively mentor others, in particular other women, both formally and informally. And they enthusiastically offered a variety of advice for anyone striving to advance in the industry.<\/p>\n<p>Among the most salient suggestions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The importance of hard work got top billing, along with a commitment to fulfill promises.<\/li>\n<li>The need for honesty and integrity also ranked high among their recommendations. \u201cIt takes a lifetime to build your reputation, and it takes a minute to lose it,\u201d cautioned Blanca Commercial Real Estate president &amp; CEO Tere Blanca.<\/li>\n<li>Networking and relationships also figured large, with industry organizations providing not just that benefit but the opportunity to improve knowledge and develop mentors, as well.<\/li>\n<li>A willingness\u2014and even eagerness\u2014to embrace change came up a number of times, with Jones Lang Lasalle Inc.\u2019s new CEO of the Americas, Lauralee Martin, pointing to real estate\u2019s primary characteristic as being \u201cflexibility, flexibility, flexibility.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Other recommendations included an admonition to focus on the client and their goals, along with a reminder to value team members.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>But perhaps the advice that stood out most for me in this highly technological age\u2014and it came, not surprisingly, from three very successful brokers\u2014was the importance of human interaction. Especially in a relationship-oriented business like real estate, they cautioned, phone is better than email, and face-to-face interaction is even more effective. It\u2019s easy to say \u201cno\u201d in an email, they pointed out, and a lot can be lost in communication without the opportunity to hear the tone of a person\u2019s voice and view their facial expression.<\/p>\n<p>With such words of wisdom to their credit, it\u2019s no wonder these women have achieved so high a level of success.<\/p>\n<p><em>Suzann D. Silverman is editorial director of Commercial Property Executive. Read more about CPE\u2019s <\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/digital.cpexecutive.com\/publication\/?i=147274\"><em>Top Women in Real Estate<\/em><\/a><em> in the March 2013 issue, and view the <\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cpexecutive.com\/in-print\/advice-from-top-women\/\"><em>slideshow<\/em><\/a><em> featuring their words of wisdom on cpexecutive.com. <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s inspiring to hear the details of a success story, and never more so than when the person had to fight their way to the top. Talk to a female executive in commercial real estate, and chances are you\u2019ll walk away with more than a few such inspirations. 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